A more laid-back attitude has meant less pressure and more fun. If you had told me when we “started thinking about trying” that it would strengthen our bond this much, I wouldn’t have believed it. But just like the love we have for our kids, I guess it’s one of those things you need to experience to believe. I’m just so grateful we did it.

I’m not one to love getting in the water, but my son loves it (who else feels me on this??).…